Time and time again your words and actions fall short of what you truly want to say to the woman you adore. You are a busy man taking care of your responsibilities and perhaps your Valentine Day offerings in the past weren't all they could be. She, on the other hand, cares for you, supports you, fulfills your needs and deserves to feel like the beloved goddess she is. So check out these great tips and suggestions for getting this Valentine's Day just right.
It's sad to say but we are only given so many opportunities in this lifetime to celebrate Valentine's Day with our loved ones. Vow right here, right now to take advantage of your opportunity this Valentine's Day to make it special and repeat after me; "I will not stop by the card store or flower shop on the way home from work this year to pick up the same old, tired and too often used, Valentine's gift this year. I will take the time to plan something special and meaningful for her this Valentine's Day".
Ok, now that you've taken the vow, that doesn't mean that you have to spend a lot of money. It doesn't mean you have to go out and buy a diamond ring (unless this is already in your plans). It does mean that you will take the time to think of what would make Valentine's Day special to her! Here are some tips to help you live up to your vow.
Procrastination is the number one mistake a man can make concerning Valentine's Day. The right Valentine's Day brings the right moment and this requires planning. Don't wait until the week of or a couple of days before. Get to it right now. Request the day off from work, call a housekeeper, do whatever you have to do to be there for her and deliver the best Valentine's Day ever. You'll find that careful planning, even when its not perfect, will be very rewarding for the time you spend with her.
Communication is very important to a healthy relationship. Both men and women need to be able to express themselves to one another and communicate their desires and dislikes. This, however, also requires the skill of listening. To help prepare for this Valentine's Day, take an extra dose of caffeine and pay close attention to the magazines she's sifting through and what she says while reading them. You can also pay close attention to what she says during the Valentine's Day ads that show on television. You'll find that women aren't usually silent about what they want for Valentine's Day.
There are some fundamental basics to providing an excellent Valentine's Day; location, activity and gift. In order to get it right, be sure to pay close attention to each detail, one at a time. Breaking your ideas down on paper and making yourself a Valentine to-do list is a good way to start. Keep the list handy as you head into Valentine's Day and jot down your thoughts and ideas. Finally re-write and prioritize your list with your plan of action as the day approaches.
To decide on the right location, think of where she expresses dismay over not having been. If her busy schedule interferes with what you have in mind, go for a one-day sure-fire excursion of the obvious nature, like a picnic in the park, theme park, mini golf, concert, zoo or carnival. If the weather keeps you indoors you can make a cozy love nest for two out of your living room. Does she have a favorite restaurant? If so, make your reservation early to ensure there won't be a wait when you arrive. When all else fails and you haven't thought of a place just asked her where she wants to go.
The activity usually falls right in line once you've chosen your location. However, if you find yourself at a park, theme park, mini golf or zoo, a picnic would be an excellent touch on any day. Be sure to pack an attractive picnic basket with snacks, sandwiches and drinks. A portable cooler could also be a help as could a romantic wine & cheese basket filled with her favorite treats.
Gifts are undeniably the grand finale on an excellent Valentine's Day. By February 1st, you should already have a good idea of what you are buying for your lovely lady. Be it jewelry, an iPod, a pet or a stationary set with flowers and a card attached, you want her to be impressed. The best course of action when deciding on a gift, is to ask way in advance. Ask her playfully to tell you three different things she would be happy to receive. If you prefer to surprise her and still need help, ask her best friend or her mother.
Your creativity and special touch is all that is missing from the more simple and explanatory ways to create a great Valentine's Day. This is, by far, the most challenging and rewarding part of making Valentine's Day special for the woman you love. Dig deep into your vocabulary and plan on expressing your feelings openly this Valentine's Day. In case you still need a jump start, here are some simple hints:
Her favorite perfume with a bow on her car seat
With these ideas and tips, your Valentine's Day ideas will improve, making your Valentine's Day one that she'll treasure for the effort you put into it. For excellent picnic recipes and romantic picnic basket ideas visit www.Picnic-Basket.com. And don't forget to be her storm from the weather. She'll look to you for calm, peaceful moments during her Valentine's Day.
Making Her Valentine's Day Special One Step at a Time
When you want her to know she fills your soul, makes you a better person and that words fall short in expressing your undying love, the overwhelming feelings can sometimes leave you without any good ideas for your Valentine's Day. But there is hope in delivering a satisfying, personal and romantic Valentine's Day tailored just for her if you plan ahead and do it all one step at a time.
Step One: Determining Her Wants and Needs
The first step to creating an amazing Valentine's Day for the special woman in your life, is knowing who she is and what she needs. Does she prefer to be active on a day off? Is she more relaxed and prefers to lounge? What kinds of things does she need in her life right now? A pedicure? A massage? A new movie that was just released on DVD? That necklace she's been talking about? You should even try to think of things she may have told you about, like where she used to go to get away when she needed to be alone.
Step Two: Combining Needs with Location
Now that you've taken some time to really think about who your lover is and what she needs this Valentine's Day, choosing a location shouldn't be so difficult.
If she's active and used to love getting away out in the country, take her to the zoo for a quiet picnic for two and some animal sight seeing. If she prefers to lounge around and has fond memories of cuddling by the fireplace, set up a love nest with blankets, pillows and mattress pillows in the loft or living room. Consider a portable DVD player as a gift to make your hide-away evening amazing with some romantic films and a backpack full of snacks, sandwiches and of course, chocolate.
Maybe your partner is a very busy woman, however, and has expressed a strong desire to be caught up in life. These women usually work very hard while trying to juggle a home and children. For this kind of Valentine's Day need, I would suggest taking Valentine's Day off, seeing the lovely woman off to work, hiring a housekeeper and asking grandma to come get the kids. This leaves you with ample time to plan reservations at an elegant restaurant or an indoor picnic near the fireplace or television. You could also have a hot bath ready for the moment she steps in the door, complete with red rose petals floating gently atop the water, bath oil already mixed in and lovely, aromatic candles lit about the clean bathroom. This is an excellent precursor to a simplistic but tasty dinner like the ones listed at the end of this article.
For those men who love the woman with a wild or unpredictable streak, choosing a location may be more difficult. Which is why you are the kind of man who shouldn't make reservations too far in advance. Choose two locations which don't require too much planning. One of these locations should be a relatively active location like an outdoor community concert performed in her taste of music. Maybe she likes more excitement like local off-roading shows or carnivals and theme parks, which would also make a private meal for two in the parking lot a special treat. The right picnic basket and a blanket could turn your tailgate into a memorable experience. The other location should be a relaxing location like a popular Garden or park. Taking along a specialized picnic basket with wine will warm her heart and likely take her desires home after the meal.
Step Three: Executing the Plan With Creativity
You shouldn't be surprised that the nurturing woman you love and adore appreciates silly and creative gestures in almost any form. While men are physical and literal creatures who usually keep balance in the family, women are emotional, sensitive and caring, which promotes happiness, positive behavior and other nurturing qualities in the home. So even if you feel a little strange going to the craft store for card stock and stickers, know that she will melt and believe that you've begun to understand her.
A great example of adding creativity to your Valentine's Day would be placing hand written notes inside each pocket of a beautiful gift basket or picnic basket on your outing. Not only will she enjoy ruffling through to find the food and drink you brought, but the little notes will be like an extra kiss on the cheek every time she reads one. Simple phrases like "You make me melt" or "This day should last forever" and "I love you more with time" should be superb.
Another way to get creative, especially for an outdoor event that leaves you with little privacy until retirement, is finding sneaky ways to give her jewelry, notes, candy or other small gifts, including gift cards. There are several ways to do this including buying her an oversized zip-up jacket just to keep her warm while you're outdoors. Slip notes, jewelry and candy into the pockets and watch as she discovers them while warming her hands!
You could also try buying her a small, inexpensive jewelry box, placing little notes and jewelry inside and then wrapping it. She'll probably like the jewelry box and then be surprised to find there's more to the gift. If you plan ahead and have reservations for a restaurant or a fun place like Medieval Times, you can request that they make an announcement for you or bring her gift to her with her meal. Be cautious, however. Women who don't like attention won't find this flattering.
Once you've decided on how to be creative and have a location, all you need to worry about is being relaxed and getting her there. A stressed out guy is the last thing a woman wants on Valentine's Day so be sure to be her rock and get her through this cherished holiday.
The Valentine's Day Food
At last, here are some great recipes to top off that special evening with. They are simple and very basic, though they can be dressed up for elegance and will wow her, even if the meal isn't perfect.
Grilled Sandwiches
Butter two slices of bread and sprinkle them each with garlic powder (just a pinch or two) placing one, butter side down in a hot pan. Place a slice of cheese on the frying bread and then sliced turkey or chicken. Top with another slice of cheese and then place the other bread slice (butter up) on top. Once the cheese has begun melting and the bottom slice of bread has turned brown (use a spatula to lift the bread corner and peek), gently scrape the sandwich from the pan and flip it. For an elegant touch, add a sprig of parsley on top.
Pita Sandwiches
With pita bread from the bakery at your grocery store, fill with fresh spinach, chopped and pre-cooked chicken strips (found in the deli meat section), shredded cheese and pearl tomatoes. Bring the Ranch dressing along and top the pita pockets with it during serving. For an elegant touch, place on a plate next to 2 bright strawberries.
Pigs in a Blanket
Using Snack Sausages, hotdogs or pre-cooked sausages cut into 2 inch weenies, roll into raw crescent rolls (found in cookie dough section next to sliced deli meats) and cook according to package. Remember to preheat the oven and put a timer on. For best results, stand around and wait until they are done rather than multi-tasking while cooking. To fancy them up, serve with canned asparagus.
By taking things one step at a time you can enjoy your Valentine's Day with your special partner and have a great time, above all else. There's nothing more rich than enjoying the small days throughout the year that make all the other times worth while. Happy Valentine's Day.
Three Easy Steps To A Successful Valentine's Day
That warm and tender person in your life who hears out your woes and fulfills your needs, deserves a glorious Valentines Celebration. The kind of tender time that is reserved for just the adults and is made up of more than just chocolate and flowers. A Valentine's Day that is well planned but simple and inviting. This kind of Valentine's Day requires three elements that must be present in order for comfort, peace and enjoyability to be achieved.
Before you put your elements together, however, be sure to know a few things first. What are your lovers needs and is your partner active or inactive? Needs can be items that your partner wants to replace around the house or it can be more expressive, like replacing a broken ring or gadget. As for having an inactive or active partner, think about whether your lover prefers to lounge around on a day of or let off some energy at a theme park. Beating around the bush won't help either as you should simply ask whether they want to relax or play on Valentine's Day.
1. Picking A Great Valentine's Day Location
The location you pick is very important to a successful Valentines Day. Choosing the right one can be simple if you associate your chosen location with your partner's personality. Perhaps they are soft and calm and would like a peaceful wine and cheese picnic by the city lake. Picnic-Basket.com has a great selection of wine & cheese sets that are perfect for this choice or perhaps your mate is more of the rough and energetic type that would prefer an activity like a carnival, festival or theme park?
Once you decide on the type of location you want, do a thorough research for something unique within that theme. There are plenty of locations to choose from like spas and resorts for couples, miniature golf, city parks for a great picnic, mountain retreats with picnic thickets, theme parks, beach communities, race tracks, street race performances, opera, college football, plays, professional sports games, concerts, zoos, forests, National Parks and so much more.
When you do decide on an outing with your lover, be sure to be creative with your ride there. Play your partner's favorite songs and supply them with snacks on the ride. If your partner is showing a desire to spend their Valentines Day indoors, be sure to prepare the areas the two of you will be using. A one-time housekeeper is an excellent way to say "I love you".
2. Choosing The Best Valentine's Day Activity
Your Valentine's Day activity will fall right into line when you decide where your location is. If you've decided the zoo, park, beach, mountain retreat or a game, a picnic should be in order, so prepare for that. Get a great picnic basket for two and research some picnic recipes. Be sure to choose simple recipes that will stay fresh in a picnic basket. Otherwise, be sure to take a portable cooler with you to dress up your tailgating meal in the parking lot.
If you are taking your partner to a theme park, race track or other outdoor activity, be sure to take a sac or shoulder bag with amenities like sunblock, water, pain reliever, band aids and lip balm with you. Cash is always a good idea at these types of events, as well.
If you plan to pamper your partner at home, be sure it's clean and inviting. Put as many personal items away as you can and calling a housekeeping service in advance to clean is a great idea and time saver. Place a key under the mat for them if you have to and get it done. You'll be surprised at how much more relaxing this will make your evening.
Once your home is clean, prepare your partner's favorites or get some carry out from their favorite restaurant. Buy two or three classic and modern romance or comedy movies that you know your partner will enjoy. Wrap them in red paper and put them out with the food so that they have a selection to choose from. And of course, be creative with giving any other special gifts. Inside pockets, slippers, next to the shower, under pillows, hanging from obvious areas.....be creative!
3. Selecting A Valentine's Day Gift
Often times people get nervous over the gift choosing because they don't want to disappoint their lover. Trust your instincts or simply ask. Even if you're general and comparative in your questions. "Do you want jewelry or a trip somewhere?" "Do you want to be pampered or go see something fun?" "Do you want to sit around or grab some beers somewhere?" When you've completely run out of steam on this subject ask your partner's best friend for advice.
Valentine's Gifts For Her
Get her a jewelry box and put a gorgeous bracelet inside. If you're on a budget, get a unique piece from another country online and have it shipped before the big day. If that doesn't sound right, what about a crystal vase filled with candy and a dozen roses clipped short and placed inside, upright and atop the candy with a large red bow around the neck? She may enjoy a jazz concert or tickets to a show with a girlfriend. Perhaps she enjoys opera or would appreciate movie tickets.
Valentine's Gifts For Him
Does he participate in any sports? If so pick him up something he can use in his game or a gift card to a sporting good store. If he needs a special place to lounge, get the lazy boy chair or a back massager. Maybe he needs a new tool box or cold weather hat. What about his favorite team? Tickets or even a collection of NFL games on DVD would make him smile. If he's an electronic guru, get him a fancy cup warmer that plugs into the USB port. Maybe he'd fancy a portable DVD player or a portable grill or some grilling accessories which all make an excellent gift.
Tips for Surprising Her On Valentin's Day
If she loves the outdoors and you've decided on a picnic, tuck her gift inside an exquisite picnic basket from Picnic-Basket.com along with the food and treats. For recipes, whether simple or elaborate, download a copy of Picnic-Basket.com's Free Picnic Cookbook. With 17 themed sections and over 100 recipes, your sure to find an appropriate dish!
When your Valentine's Day is restricted to a home environment, or your budget can only cover a nice meal and an invitation to your place, a fancy bath can be the ticket. Fill the tub with plenty of steaming hot water and some fragrant bath oils. Take apart one red rose and gently drop the petals into the water. Dim the lights if you can, or turn them off and light some white candles. Place a small boombox and a couple of his/her favorite CDs nearby. Maybe add their favorite wine and chocolates and a brand new fuzzy, white towel and robe. Mi Amore.
Women are nurturers and sensitive creatures. They often have a fond feeling for art and hand made items because of the time and thought that goes into the gift. So men, get out the markers and the blank cards from the craft store. Tell her how you feel, even if it's short and informative. "You mean a lot to me. I love your skin and your smile. You make me proud to live my life. I love you." The thoughts don't have to be complicated. Just hand written and from the heart.
Tips for Surprising Him On Valentine's Day
Men like simplicity when they are relaxing, active or not and they never want clothing on Valentine's Day. Stick to what they love. If he's a tool collector, get him a new one. If you would prefer not to get lost in the sea of warehouse-like store racks, get the gift card and give it to him in a creative way.
If your man is creative or likes video games and electronics, check out the Nintendo DS, the PSP or another game system he may be interested in. Search through the racks at Best Buy and make him really happy this Valentines Day. Choose a game that you would enjoy playing with him, like Tetris, Scrabble, Brain Age or other puzzle games that have been reviewed as "female favorites".
Creativity On Valentine's Day Earns Extra Points
If you're giving your lover a gift card, get creative with it! Wrap it several times and hang it somewhere they would see it that morning. Hang it from the ceiling in the shower. Put it on the dash in their car. Slip it in her purse or his wallet, where they are destined to see it at some point in the day. Put it in a gift basket or in a wine carafe, whatever you think will get a smile.
Take a little extra time this year to do some pre-planning so you and your loved one can enjoy the perfect Valentine's Day celebration!
